My TWINS STORY
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My twins story is both very sad and very happy.
My husband and I already had a little boy who was born in August
2015 and so in April 2017 we decided to try for another baby.
It entered and we were so excited.
At the 12 week scan we were very surprised to find out that we
were having twins (naturally conceived) – so excited….at the 20 week scan we
found out that it was a boy and a girl, even better!
Then at just over 24 weeks I had a ‘show’, I went to the the
hospital and they said I’d be fine as I was in no pain.
The day after I went for a growth scan and told the sonographer
about what had happened the previous night and she said both babies were fine
so don’t worry.
However….about 3 hours later, when walking home from work, the
pain started and came on so quickly. After getting home I passed out and was
rushed to the hospital neighbors.
I was told I was already fully dilated and there was nothing
they could do, so about 10 hours later I gave birth to Tunde and Kemi who were
stillborn and were born alive but unfortunately they died even after being
transferred to an intensive care neonatal unit.
They were born at 24 weeks and 5 days. It was so very hard to
get over our loss – I just wanted to crawl into a hole and stay there.
In addition to this situation, my husband lost his job and things became extremely difficult, my business as an event planning was also “suffering” until I was advised to try to get customers online, I did and also purchased the most powerful app that helps you get online customer for your business-SurvAI- Thanks to this powerful app- https://jvz4.com/c/1188009/380931 that literally harness leads and sales to my online page and was making so much money.
The main thing I wanted was pregnancy, though my online business
was feeding me and my husband but I wasn’t happy-NO PREGNANCY.I just couldn’t
understand what I had done wrong (although everyone around me was trying to
explain that I had nothing to with it but of course I was going to blame
myself).
We went to see the Consultant to see if she could try and
explain why it had happened – we were told that it was just one of those things
that can happen with twins and I should be fine if and when we wanted to try
again for another baby.
Boom, one year later, after the loss of my babies, we did decide
to try again and "e enter straight away"
At about 6 weeks into the pregnancy I started to have a little
bleeding so after what had happened to us last time I went straight to the
hospital.
During the scan I was shocked to hear that there were two babies
– again, but at the time no heartbeats could be seen – I wanted to collapse and
die.
They explained that it could just be too early and I was asked
to go home and return for another scan in 10 days time.
10 long days later there they were, two heartbeats, we were so
excited but so scared at the same time.
But the pregnancy wasn’t to go smoothly – I had bleeding on and
off up to about 14 weeks which couldn’t be explained.
At the 12 week scan they said one of the babies had an increased
nuchal translucency measurement so I had to be referred to a specialist
hospital for further tests.
After being told that one of the babies had a very high risk of
a chromosomal disorder--I was like, "what is this again"?
.I remained strong and my sweet husband was so helpful during
this period.
At 16 weeks I had the test on both babies and after waiting for
what seemed an age, the results came back and both babies were fine – thank
goodness.
However, I was then told that one of the babies had a hole in
their heart-I cried and cried after I jumped for joy.
.lt was at this stage that we decided to find out the sexes of
the babies and again it was a boy and girl and it was the little girl that
apparently had a problem with her heart.
The specialists said it was highly likely that she would require
surgery to rectify the hole shortly after birth.
Following my previous premature labour the Consultant decided to
try and lengthen this pregnancy by putting in a cervical stitch which was done
at 18 weeks.
At my next midwife appointment at 20 weeks she checked the
heartbeats as they do after I had told her about the little girl having a hole
in hers.
The midwife said that both heartbeats sounded perfectly normal
to her but it was best to listen to what the specialists have said.
For hearing that word " normal" I danced with my
husband that evening as if we were in a party.
At the follow-up scan at 22 weeks I had a detailed growth and
cardiac scan and I was then told that the apparently ‘large’ hole had actually
resolved by itself and both babies were fine
So after all that everything was fine and after 9 and half
month, I give birth to Tomy and Wale.
May you be inspired with my story and believe that your own
TWINS is coming soon.
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